Digitribute - Dia De Los Muertos

Thanks, Stephanie - this means more than I can say...

"Eddie" is my beloved grandma, who died last yeat just after her 90th birthday. I was too pregnant to travel to her funeral, which crushed me. She taught me how to play cards when I was very young, and she patiently allowed me to beat the snot out of her every Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, and summer vacation for about 20 years. (We never got to get serious about bridge, though, because we didn't have sufficient numbers of partners). I was a social butterfly and party animal in high school and college, but all invites were turned down if Grandma was in town. When we interred her ashes last summer, my b-i-l, a marble and stone guy, made her a little casket just so we could place a mini bottle of Jim Beam, a crossword puzzle, and a deck of well worn cards in with her. I was the only one in the family who knew of those last wishes - and I made damn sure I honored those promises I made to her as a teenager.

What saddens me most about her death was that she fell away from the Faith during WWII and was too angry to come back, even as the end approached. My biological grandfather left her, my mom, and uncle for a French field nurse he met while overseas during the war. Instead of reuniting with her husband at the end of the war, she received divorce papers instead. She remarried in the early 1950's and had two more sons with Bob, my late grandpa. Her parish priest "excommunicated" her (I know, I know...) and would not allow her to set foot in the church. Annulments were expensive and near-impossible to obtain back then. She spent the rest of her life angry and feeling not good enough/unwanted by the Church, which was a terrible blow to the family. My great-grandmother's family was an extremely devout French-Canadian family (parishioners of Ste Anne de Beaupre for over 100 years until she married and emigrated to the USA), and my great-grandmother was devastated by what transpired, both the divorce and the subsequent, less-than charitable treatment of my grandmother. She ensured that my mom and her brothers attended Catholic school and brought them to Mass each week so she could pray for my grandma while simultaneously glaring daggers at that parish priest in the southwest suburbs of Chicago.

So please offer a prayer for Eddie and the peaceful repose of her soul at Mass on Sunday, and for her mother, my great-grandma Anna Trudeau Linton, who kept the Faith alive in the family.

And again, Stephanie...THANK YOU!!!

Tricky, not treaty

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If it's not one thing...

...it's my mother.
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She's coming to town tomorrow, which means one of two things: 1) I will suddenly give in to the urge to paint a room/start some other ridiculously messy project; or 2) go into a baking frenzy. It's some sort of defense mechanism. Last time she was here, I did both.
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I am sure there's some perfectly rational explanation in an abnormal psych textbook somewhere. In the meantime, the Pane Toscana has been mixed and is in its preliminary 18-hour rise phase.

We will eat well this weekend, at any rate.

You GO Mike!

A break from the usual topics...it's sinless confession time:

I LOVE MIKE SINGLETARY!!!

One of the best linebackers ever, a Chicago Bear legend, and now the SF 49'ers head coach. He is a class act all the way around, very old-school, and probably REALLY p*ssing off the wildly overpaid, high maintenance players on his team . Here, he's taking responsibility for the loss in his coaching debut, then taking one Vernon Harris to task - and rightly so, the selfish git! - I just hope it doesn't get him fired:


The AOL headlines today were screaming: "Coach has meltdown, rants at player" which is total bs. He's being very direct and speaking from the heart, but I actually thought he was rather restrained. As anyone who's ever seen "the eyes" when he lined up back in the day could tell you, he looked downright mellow in this press conference.

Seriously, what would you do if you saw this 275-lb. bundle of intensity and 110% commitment hurtling at you?

(Answer: Depends?!?)

Again, I just think the world of him and I think he'll be an amazing, even legendary coach if given the leeway to get these young snotty players and their entourages under control.

Now, I love Lovie, too, don't get me wrong, but having Mike Singletary or Gary Fencik as head coach of my beloved Bears has been a dream of mine since each man retired. Loving my Bears may not be a sin, but I will admit, loving the 1986 "Superbowl Shuffle" video (which I still own) probably is.

(P.S.: RIP, Walter Payton - I have spent more than a few teary-eyed hours watching YouTube fan tributes to #34)

Voting Your Catholic Conscience

Go to www.randallterry.com to listen to Bishop Gracida's radio address.

(I tried to upload it for you all, as permission is granted to do so, but got repeated Blogger error messages - if you can manage to capture it on your blog AND on your email lists, go for it!)

H/T: WDTPRS

Desperate times

Today is the Feast Day of St. Jude, (a.k.a., Jude Thaddeus or Jude of James) with whom I became great friends spending 9 days before each final exam week on my knees during law school, and whose friendship I have renewed along the way several times since then.
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St. Jude is invoked in in desperate times, and for seemingly hopeless causes. This is due to the political climate in his day, as well as the fact that his name was often confused with Judas Iscariot, so I suppose if you had a go-to apostle, he wouldn't be the one and thus, you'd have to be pretty desperate if you were going down the ranks and calling on him! But his short chapter in the Bible packs a lot of punch.


The Epsitle of St. Jude addresses some interesting topics:

• He warns and exhorts the faithful to be wary of false prophets and their heretical teachings


• He advises that the heretics, wicked angels, and inhabitants of Sodom* will be met with terrible punishment in the end, as will those who fall away and follow them
  
• He encourages Christians to remain faithful to the teachings of the Apostles, even in the face of persecution from without and contentious times within Christianity
  
• He tells the faithful how to deal with those who have fallen away - with mercy - both by action (through aid and conversion) and in prayer (those whose obstinacy in sin is beyond the ability to help)
  
• His doxology is considered to be the most beautiful in the Bible:

(24) To the one who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you unblemished and exultant, in the presence of his glory, (25) to the only God, our savior, through Jesus Christ our Lord be glory, majesty, power, and authority from ages past, now, and for ages to come. Amen.

* Jude is the one who actually calls sodomy/sexual perversion a sin (verse 7), so you'll occasionally see "Jude 7" signs at anti-gay marriage/anti gay pride demonstrations.

Given the current state of things in our nation, what the polls are indicating for next week, well, could there BE a more appropriate Saint on the calendar today? Maybe it's a bit late to start a novena, but you could certainly add his novena prayer on at the end of your Rosary novena:
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Most holy Apostle, St. Jude, faithful servant and friend of Jesus, the Church honors and invokes you universally, as the patron of difficult cases, of things almost despaired of,

Pray for me, I am so helpless and alone. Intercede with God for me that He bring visible and speedy help where help is almost despaired of. Come to my assistance in this great need that I may receive the consolation and help of heaven in all my necessities, tribulations, and sufferings, particularly -(make your request here)- and that I may praise God with you and all the saints forever.

I promise, O Blessed St. Jude, to be ever mindful of this great favor granted me by God and to always honor you as my special and powerful patron, and to gratefully encourage devotion to you. Amen

(Follow with an Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be)

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St. Jude is traditionally depicted holding a club (or an axe or halberd) to symbolize the means of his martyrdom, and/or with a flame over his head to depict his devotion to the Holy Spirit as expressed in his Epsitle. He is the unofficial Patron Saint of this blog and its author - I call this last prayer card "St. Jude By the Brook." :-)

Redistribute THIS, Barry...

As John Adams famously said, facts are stubborn things.

Seven years ago, Barry (back when you could call him that) talked on local Chicago radio about the Civil Rights Movement and the Supreme Court's failure to adequately implement "redistributive change."

Earth to Joe Biden - no, he wasn't kidding then, and he isn't now.

As a petty little aside...

If you listen carefully, Barry's diction was a lot tighter back then in 2001 than it suddenly became after 2004. He said words like "socie-tee" rather than "socie-teh." Not to go all Henry Higgins on you, but it has annoyed me to no end that in order to broaden his appeal to the non-elitist, non-millionaire Democratic electorate, he's adopted a quasi-urban, pseudo hip-hop patois so he sounds "cooler" or something.

This carpetbagging poseur is so cheap and eager to pander that he'd have truly disadvantaged urban voters believe that he's one of them by adopting a fake accent. What they don't realize is that they're being talked down to by this HI boarding school alum, white family raised, Ivy-League educated snob who cares only about their votes, and gives not a fig about their lives.

Drives me FRIGGIN' NUTS!

Our Composer in Residence...

Friends, we have greatness in our midst.

As Election Day approaches, our favorite Neanderthal, Cavey, has composed some alternative lyrics to improve on a few rather dreadful old tunes...pop over and take a look, but if you are easily offended...okay, well, maybe don't. Whatever the case may be, I say it's great to have a smile on your face and a song in your heart.

Thanks Cavey!!!

Sarah Palin's Proposals for Special Needs Kids

From the Washington Post - article here. Some of the comments are so brutal.

In addition to her own cute little special needs son Trig, she has an autistic nephew. She may be new at dealing with these issues within her own family, but I think she knows the deal. I really believe she means what she says, would fight hard see her proposals through, and could make a huge contribution by forwarding these causes through obtaining funding increases for research and education.

(PLEASE, Lord...hear our prayers!)

All things being equal?

The presidential election polls are contracting again...or are they? Did the gap between the candidates really ever get as wide/BO get as far ahead as claimed in the last few weeks? I have absolutely no faith in the reportage on the election, and none in the polling process because I think it's easy to choose who you call as a pollster.

I've never been polled, have you?

And here's a chilling thought. If the polls are indeed skewed in favor of BO, and then reality strikes on the 4th and he loses, the leftists will go NUTS and claim that the Republicans stole the election yet again, and all that nonsense. James Carville (not one of my favorite pundits) intimated last week that there could be violence and rioting if BO doesn't win. I don't like him much, but I have to admit that on this point, I agree with him.

I'm really not looking forward to November 4th and its aftermath, no matter who wins. All we can do is pray for the right outcome. I'm joining the Ignorant Redneck in his proposed 3 days of fasting and prayer prior to the election - I hope some of you will consider doing the same!

The Eyes Have It

Like Kasia, I am languishing under the covers...another kid-inflicted cold seems to be creeping in, darn it. I also seem to be posting more substantive things in others' comboxes, so I'm too worn out to be interesting here. So until I get the grey matter back on task, here's another goofy quiz, but oddly, it's not too far off the real "moi":

Your result for Are You a Jackie or a Marilyn? Or Someone Else? Mad Men-era Female Icon Quiz...

You Are a Bette!

You are a Bette -- "I must be strong"

Bettes are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.

How to Get Along with Me

• * Stand up for yourself... and me.


• * Be confident, strong, and direct.


• * Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.


• * Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.


• * Give me space to be alone.


• * Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.


• * I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.


• * When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

What I Like About Being a Bette

• * being independent and self-reliant


• * being able to take charge and meet challenges head on


• * being courageous, straightforward, and honest


• * getting all the enjoyment I can out of life


• * supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me


• * upholding just causes

What's Hard About Being a Bette

• * overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to


• * being restless and impatient with others' incompetence


• * sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it


• * never forgetting injuries or injustices


• * putting too much pressure on myself


• * getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

Bettes as Children Often

• * are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit


• * are sometimes loners


• * seize control so they won't be controlled


• * figure out others' weaknesses


• * attack verbally or physically when provoked


• * take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

Bettes as Parents

• * are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted


• * are sometimes overprotective


• * can be demanding, controlling, and rigid

Take Are You a Jackie or a Marilyn? Or Someone Else? Mad Men-era Female Icon Quiz at HelloQuizzy

It's only a 2-question quiz - try it out and have a little fun!

Housekeeping - blogroll

Well, I had a little spare time on my hands, so I finally sat down yesterday and added the new blogroll feature at the sidebar. Problem is, I got several phone calls and one nappus interruptus/trip to the boy's room in the process and kept losing my place as I went down the list.

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I think all my usual suspects are there, but if you're missing, or if you'd like to be added or - sniff - deleted, your wishes are a mere combox away, my friends.

An Aspie's Ode to Stinky Diapers

A burst of new song overheard last night in the living room during a rather malodorous diaper change:

It isn't funny to be stinky
'Cause stinking isn't funny

It doesn't bother you

Because your nose is stuffy

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And it's not funny to sneeze

When your little nose is runny

Quit rubbing all that snot
On your nekkid tummy

You don't have to smell you
Stop laughing, it's not funny...

Followed by:

"MA-MMMMAAAAA! He's disgusting! I need help!"

After clearing the toxic waste spill, I ran upstairs to write it down before I forgot it. Oh, did I laugh!!!

Caliente!

All right, between the last debate, and herding a birthday party full of screaming and weeping 6th graders through a haunted field in the cold (seriously, it was meant for young kids, and was not that scary!) followed by a disappointing SNL appearance by Sarah Palin last night (why couldn't they let her be her natural and funny self was McCain was at the press dinner the other night?), I am too drained and filled with dread at what will come to pass in 2 weeks to post anything substantive....so some more silly stuff, this time swiped from our dear friend Tara's blog:

You Are Cayenne Pepper

You are very over the top and a bit overwhelming. You have a fiery personality, and you can give anyone a good jolt. You can easily take things up a couple notches, no matter what crowd you're running with.

What Spice Are You?

Perhaps it is no coincidence after all that the Beloved has been calling me his "HotChiliMamma" since time immemorial - it is now official! (Silly, silly man...but also quite smart, in his own subversive little way....)

Happy 11th Birthday!

To our our own Little Flower, she of the Fatima apparitions, who plans to be a midwife and perhaps a nun one day, unless she finds the cure for her personal cross - Asperger's syndrome - which she plans to do in her spare time.

Not by chance, this is also the feast day of St. Luke, patron saint of physicians and surgeons, and author of the most beautiful of the Gospels, imho.

We're having a pizza party, heading out to a scary corn maze/cheerleading fundraiser, then doing cake, ice cream, and presents back here at the Casa de Brookdwellers. More fall fun! Hope you all have a great day, too.

Hail Mary (En Français)

I dreamed in French last night for the first time in a long time. I was in a cathedral trying desperately to remember how to pray the rosary and how to say the Hail Mary in French. Pourquois? Je ne sais pas. But here it is for posterity:

Je vous salue, Marie pleine de grâces ;
le Seigneur est avec vous.
Vous êtes bénie entre toutes les femmes et Jésus,
le fruit de vos entrailles, est béni.
Sainte Marie, Mère de Dieu,
priez pour nous pauvres pécheurs,
maintenant et à l'heure de notre mort.
Amen.

I fell asleep while praying last night (hey, it was late...it happens!), so maybe that dream was the continuation of what I'd started but not finished. Please pray for me and a personal intention I have regarding my Beloved and my young Brookdwellers. More to follow when I figure out what the answer is.

Silly stuff

Sometimes you've gotta take a break from the usual stuff. H/T to the most excellent Vincenzo...

You Are a Brownie

Decadent and intense, you aren't for the weakhearted. Those who can deal with your strong flavor find out how sweet you really are.

What Dessert Are You Most Like?

Mmmmmmm.....chocolate.......

St. Teresa of Avila - Doctor of the Church

Another superstar Saint's feast day - a worldly girl, a flirt, a self-confessed sinner, just like the rest of us - but uniquely gifted by a deep, mystical union with her Friend, Christ Jesus, with whom she had a powerful and amusing discourse:

Sometimes [...]she couldn't avoid complaining to her closest Friend about the hostility and gossip that surrounded her. When Jesus told her, "Teresa, that's how I treat my friends" Teresa responded, "No wonder you have so few friends." But since Christ has so few friends, she felt they should be good ones. And that's why she decided to reform her Carmelite order.

(Link to article here)

St. Teresa's vibrant spirit and her sense of humor leap off the page when you read her Life, or Autobiography, which I heartily recommend! She sets us the difficult spiritual task of mastering mental prayer and describes the four stages of the soul's ascendency: devotion of the heart - you focus your attention and love on Christ and his Passion, devotion of peace - where your self-will is given over to God in your everyday life, and what worldly tasks you have to do are mere distractions from your purpose of prayer, devotion of union - entering into spiritual union, i.e., understanding God's will and accepting it without regard to the self, and devotion of ecstasy - where you literally lose sense of yourself and your physical body and are in a state of full spiritual communion with the Lord. (I paraphrase, of course, but this is my understanding from my 10-year-old notations in the text)

And here is her prayer - deceptive in its simplicity - so hard to do in "real life"

Let nothing trouble you

Let nothing make you afraid.

All things pass away.

God never changes.

Patience obtains everything.

God alone is enough.

Political Miscellany

3 weeks to go...

Here's a few items to get you thinking.

http://www.bpmdeejays.com/upload/hs_sal_in_Harlem_100108.mp3

People who are for Obama but have no clue what he stands for or who his running mate is.

And then there's this - from the WSJ. "The Great Obama" - very funny!

UPDATE:

And some additional tidbits from our new blog friend Steve

http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/viewarticle.php?selectedarticle=2008.10.14_George_Robert_Obama%27s%20Abortion%20Extremism_.xml

http://www.newsweek.com/id/163896

What will become of us?!?

Not quite the petting zoo...

Ok - I'm in my ragey place now. What would you do if your kid came home and told you all about this?!?

These kids are SIX FRIGGIN' YEARS OLD!!! A teachable moment my @ss!!!

I can't continue with this post. Too appalled for charitable words.